I love my family, almost to a point where if we were the only 6 left on earth, I would be totally OK with it. I’m very protective of us and our time together, which as the kids get older and we get busier, seems to be a little bit fewer and far between. So when we are all together, either purposefully or accidentally, we are very intentional with our time. I saw a sign today that read,
We didn’t know we were making memories, we just knew we were having fun.
This is my new mantra! With that being said, let me help you create memories with your family without even trying.
1. Don’t over schedule yourself. I can’t stress this enough. Work, school, PTA, sports, dance, music, karate, homework, housework, yard work, … the list can go on and on. Over scheduling yourself and your kids is easy to do. But it’s also not necessary. Pick one extra curricular activity for you and/or your kids. The days off are a bit more frequent when you don’t have too much going on. Believe me, I get it. Both me and my husband work full time, both of my teenagers have jobs, my youngest daughter is involved in basketball and brand practice, so I know how easy it is to get caught up in busy. But try to set aside one or two days per month where you and your family is 100% “off.” Let the vacuuming wait. The dishes are fine in the dishwasher. And there will always be laundry to do. Take your free day and go make a memory or two.
2. Sneak in fun things even when you have a lot going on. As much as I would like to say the Christmas season is full of baking days and relaxation for us, it’s not. It’s easily the busiest time of year for me. I don’t get to drop everything and go play with my kids when they are outside making snowmen. But I do sneak in moments with them when I can. Whether it’s driving around looking at Christmas lights or dining out at their restaurant of choice, creating moments for them will also create memories.
3. Document your moments so you can relive your memories. Most people have some kind of a camera on their phone. It’s there for a reason, so use it. You may not even realize you’re creating memories until you look back a week or two later and you are able to relive it. One of my favorite moments, which I didn’t even realize would turn into a favorite summer memory, happened two summers ago. We took a few days to get out of town. We stumbled upon a restaurant that we all decided looked decent enough for us to have dinner. It turned out to be one of my favorite memories of the entire trip. The kids all got along, our food was amazing, we explored the restaurant after dinner which just happened to be full of history. But I didn’t even realize how much I loved those moments until we were able to look back at the photos (played as a screensaver on our family Mac) and remember what an amazing memory it was!
What can you do this week or even this month to create special moments with your family? Next week, I’m going to be sharing some of our favorite things to do as a family for every budget. I’d love to hear your ideas, so send them my way!